Why do guys expect us to set the boundaries?

Nickname/Alias: Diane

Subject: boundaries

Message: I do not understand why guys expect the girls to set the physical boundaries in a relationship. Doesn't he have boundaries too?

Yes, ideally a guy should have his own set of standards and boundaries too. However, they generally expect the girl to draw the line. Guys are more easily stimulated—they are very visual and their hormones are raging. It doesn’t mean they can’t have their own boundaries—they should—but they find it difficult sometimes to stop once you have begun having any physical contact. As a girl, it’s good to understand this so you can clearly talk about what you’re comfortable with from the start and not let things go too far.

Hope that helps!

G2G

Erica Jones