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  • Checking your cellphone or email without your permission

  • Constantly putting you down

  • Extreme jealousy or insecurity

  • Explosive temper

  • Isolating you from family or friends

  • Physically hurting you in any way

  • Possessiveness

  • Telling you what to do

  • Repeatedly pressuring you to have sex